When a winter
season occurs for a couple, the spouses tend to feel uncertain or less hopeful
about where their marriage is headed. Couples in the fall season tend to aware
that things aren't right. They are troubled by the state of their
relationship. And winter marriages are characterized by coldness, harshness and
bitterness. However, “the seasons of fall and winter are not altogether
purposeless. They often serve as a wake-up call to stimulate marital growth,”
All couples face
difficulties, and all couples have differences. The real problem arises when
couples “fail to negotiate these differences.” Couples may “find themselves in
the middle of winter — a season of marriage created not by the difficulties of
life but by the manner in which a couple respond to those difficulties.”
So no matter what
season you choose to hold the wedding ceremony, as long as you have a good
attitude to cope with the difficulties,go ahead and follow your love.
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