It’s Not a Question of Right or Wrong

Do you ever find yourself in an argument with your spouse?  And do you ever find what you are arguing makes no sense and even seem to be stupid?  Even though we might think this way, it doesn’t always result in us ending the argument. One day we may realize how ridiculous some arguments are.

Sometimes you two get into arguments about the differences in your perceptions regarding something. It's like you are trying to convince each other that "you" are right and "he/she" is wrong. The longer this kind of argument goes on, the more likely we will feel extremely disconnected and the more likely we will say things that will hurt our spouse. Actually, I think it’s not a question of right or wrong, but a question of cherish, understand and tolerate. The one who loves you will not let the argument go on. So whenever you want to satisfy your delight to speak out your opposite idea, consider the way you speak and whether it will make your spouse angry.